I would just like to send my condolences to Kim and
their son on such a tragic and needless loss. I used
to work with Jimmy when I was a delivery driver for
the same company, I remember being out the night they meet in the old Chicago's
and going on his stag do when we went paintballing. Kim brought happy times
for Jim.
I might have lost touch with him when I left but I have never forgotten. All
my best for the future to Kim and their son.
'Charlie' Parker
I first met Jim and his wife back in December 05, when
our baby boys were ill in hospital with problems with
their chests. We got to spend a few days on the ward
with them, shared a few laughs, shared our worries for
the boys and offered each other reassurance when ever
we could. Turned out we only lived a few yards from
each other, and we would often bump into each other
in the streets and compare notes on the children. I
can honestly say that they appeared to be a very happy
and loving family, always took the time to say hello.
My husband only saw Jim at carrow road a few weeks back
at the England under 21 match and again shared a laugh.
I can not believe what a cruel world we live in , to
take someone so young and so loved by all his family.
My heart go out to all of his family especially Kim
and Kyle. You are all in our thoughts.
Sharon, Neil, Lewis,Kaomi and Jack xxxxx
Jim brought me up for the best part of 10 years of
my life and was like a dad 2 me even though we havent
had any contact for alot of years he was never far from
my thoughts my whole heart goes out to kim kyle ruth
and matty and all those that knew him this is my goodbye
to him. May you rest in peace jim xxxx
lots of love Donna xxxx
Dear Jim, our condolences goes out to Kim,Kyle and
now that you will live on through Kyle and will always
be with us, we will miss your sense of humour and the
laughs and giggles what we have had. We will miss you
Jim but will always be in our thoughts,you was a star
and a star will always shine bright.Rest in peace mate
god bless from Neil, Marisa, Chris
xxxxx
We know of Jimmy and Kim through Ian having worked
along side him for the past 10 years. Both of them made
Sarah feel very welcome the 1st time she met them (
xmas work do) we had'nt known each other long at the
time so Sarah was very nervous.
We were both glad the three of you could come along
to our wedding last year. Kyle is a tribute to you both.Sarah
can remember saying good bye late on and Kyle still
being wide awake taking everything in.
Mere words cant describe our feelings when we heard
this news. Our thoughts are with Kim, Kyle, Jims family
and all that knew him.
Ian and Sarah
Our hearts go out to Kim & kyle with the sad loss
of a loving husband & devoted daddy.
A tragic waste of a young life, but will never be forgotten
by those who knew & loved him.
We sadly did not know you, but your last minutes of
life will remain in our thoughts forever.
Karen & Brian
Taken so tragically and suddenly without a chance to
say goodbye to those you loved so much.
Rest in peace Jim.
Love from Auntie Irene, Uncle David, Gavin,
and Neil. xxxx.
Jim we always had a laugh and a mess about before you
went to sell programmes at Norwich City in your little
hut, you used to say that i am the devil child and would
call me Damian but i new you was only messing about,
so who's going to torment me now then matey.Jim rest
in peace and you will always be rememberd by us both,
God bless mate from James and Joshua
xxxxxxx
Our condolences goes out to Kim,Kyle and family.Thinking
of you all at this sad time.Sleep tight Jim from Dennis
and Joyce Mills.xx
why jim why. words cannot express what we are going
through but there are many words that can discribe jim.
he was funny loving caring but most of all he was a
fantastic husband to kim and the worlds best dad to
kyle. we were fortunate to have jim as our brother in
law for many years,not only our brother but most important
our friend. he was the apple of our girls lives their
dear uncle jim. he will be deeply missed and loved by
many people. we know that you will be watching kim and
kyle but we will look and love after them for you forever
jim. Rest in peace mate we love you. kerri ,mark
and your 2 big girls lauryn and caitlin.xxxxxxxxx
you will be missed but never ever forgotten.
Jim you were taken so tragically, so unfairly. You
were such a kind and caring person, with a very "shiney
head"!
There will always be a space in our hearts filled with
sadness where you should be.
Our love and thoughts are with Kim and Kyle. We'll always
be there if they need us.
Watch out for those fireworks on New Years Eve, as the
stars spread out across the sky they will be for you.
Sleep tight Jim, you will be sadly missed and always
remembered.
Love Marie and Ainsley. x x x x
Dearest Jim, Words fail when someone can so cruely take
away a loved one. Jim you were a real smashing lad,
such a wonderful Husband and Daddy, you were second
to none.
We will miss that lovely smile and cheeky face, we will
store it in our hearts always.
Kim and Kyle are hearts go out to you both at this sad
and tragic time. Jim you have left a gap no-one can
ever fill, the world will be a sadder place without
you.
Thinking of all the family at this time.
Sleep peacefully JIm.
Love Jenny and Nigel. x x x x
Jim,a truly gentle giant even though you had a poor
taste in football teams.... the stick you used to give
me over the hammers. A tragic loss to all who knew you.
A truly devoted husband and father our condolences go
to Kim,Kyle and family at this sad time. god bless and
sleep tight mate from Adi, Mari, Shannon, Ross,
and Bradley xxxxxx
My condolences goes out to kim & kyle and james
family .I went to the same high school as him it was
BOWTHORPE HIGH SCHOOL . Thinking of you all at this
sad time .He was a great guy at school . He will sadly
be missed by all his friends from bowthorpe school who
knew him
Hayley carver (bunn)
Jim was my and my husbands nephew by marrage to our
lovely niece Kim we all loved Jim very much and he was
so good to our daughter Leslie and son-in law John and
a great role model to our grandchildren who all adored
him. Such a sad time for all the family and all our
love and support will always be there for Kim and Kyle.
God Bless Jim love Aunt Jeanette Uncle Brian, Les John
Ryan Liam Kieran Aaron Lysette Nayomi Michael. Fondest
memories from Gary and Chrisie. xxxx
Jim – There was no reason for what happened.
We can only take comfort and joy from the years you
were with us. You were a gentleman in the truest sense
of the word. Rest assured that Kim and Kyle will be
looked after as you would have wished. We will miss
you for all time.
Your loving Doreen, Glenn, Karen and Ben.
Jim, sundays just aint going
to be the same being late home from the pub with chris
and seeing your shiney red
noggin sticking up out of the garden vedge patch,we
will miss your reply when kim wants a cuppa and you
were sound asleep on the floor, i can hear it now as
i write this and a smile comes to my face,your glowing
face will be missed poking through the serving hatch
at kids parties handing out the drinks. you have left
to many great memories to list mate, they will stay
with us till we see you again mate.
as they say only the good die young and that is
very true
in your case. you rest in
peace buddy your family will be looked after.
mark
r.i.p jimmy
no one can belive you have gone u made everyone laugh
what we gonna do without you you were so special that
is why god pick you if only we could turn back time
you would be here prob on the phone to my dad making
him laugh why in one person did he take you.i try and
be strong but i cant i break down thinking of you.i
miss when we had are play fights and when you phone
you would speak to me.i will tell kyle about you he
just like you. my dad told me when kyle got a bit older
you would take him fishing and you was gonna plan a
holiday but now you cant because someone took your life
away dad will not talk that much cause he miss you so
much you will have to wait 4 us all untill we all get
up there its horrible cause we never thought you would
be gone u here about this on the news but you dont think
it will be you never forget you norwich support lo sweet
dream jim 4 the day i will wear yellow and green even
if i dont go sleep tight and we met again some day we
r all there 4 you kim and kyle
xxx your best mate adrians daughter kerry xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Uncle jim
Ilove you and miss you . you were funny and luvely.who
will take me fishing now?
love from lauryn your big niece.xxxxx
my uncle jim i miss you very much. i dreamt about you
the other night and you twinkled at me. you are now
my gaurdian angel watching over me and lauryn. Sleep
tight i love you
from your little niece Caitlin.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
WNP discos and quiz and chips will never be the same
again. Kim and Kyle, all the family and anyone who knew
and loved Jim are in our thoughts.
Francesca from WNP
Dear Kim and Master Kyle Our love and thoughts go
out to you both – also both families – a
senseless death of a well loved husband and dad XXX
SAD WORLD
Why is it we are cruel, unjust and unkind?
To other peoples pain, we are blind
We live in violence, darkness and hate
Leaving our lives to the hands of fate
We tend to kill each other in cold blood
Like ripping the head off a newly formed bud
Such lack of respect and sense of self worth
With not thought at all to the miracle of birth
As for crime, there never seems to be an end
Always lives and possessions we have to defend
Many hearts are filled with sorrow and dismay
At how our world is becoming today
In our thoughts
Love from Gloria Graham – Chris
Terry and Families XXXX
Hi Kim and Kyle
We think about you all the time and will always be
here for you. Jim was a super guy and we all thought
the world of him. Hugs and kisses to you both.
xxx
Gary Chrissie Liz Naomi and Mick
all of our love goes to u and the people that will
dearly miss u. everyone is going to miss u so much and
will never ever forget u. love you always.
lysette xx.
jim...
you were like an uncle to me! you were so funny and
i will miss your cheeky smile! i will miss you dearly
but will remember you always,we will all look after
kim and kyle for you. i cant imagine the next family
occasion without you being there! i will think of you
all the time and remember the good times we shared together!
love you always.
lots of love Naomi xx
i cant beleive something like this could happen to
such a nice man. Jim i miss you and i know so many other
people do aswell but it is so cruel how he got taken
out of his life so young and with a family its just
so cruel
lots of love to you kim and you kyle and most of all
you, Jim.
Micky Overland
How could words ever say how yon kim,little kyle and
your family must be feeling,speaking for myself it still
seems like a bad dream i still expect him to ride into
work on his scooter in his bright yellow coat looking
like a lollypop man!I have so many good,happy memories
of jimmy like him doing his "Its a knockout"
walk,the day he came in on his pushbike all red and
hot so he stripped off at work to cool down!we all loved
his flip outs too like we all loved jimmy he was one
of the best, top drawer material and ill never forget
him who will give me grief on derby days now?, i was
blessed to have known him and proud to have been called
his friend, so long great mate! love JAMIE,ANNA
AND FAMILY
Jim,
i did'nt see you that often but that doesnt stop me
from knowing what a great guy you were!!!
i know u are missed by so many people!!! i hope you
caught all them balloons we sent to you!!!
one day we will all join you but until then we have
our own memories of you!!! one truly good person!!!rest
in peace!!!
xxxx shayne xxxx
I only heard about this last Sunday 30/08/07. I was
deeply shocked by the news & very upset I could
not be there to pay my respects. The last time I saw
Jim was at the England U21 game at Carrow Road. We always
had good banter every time West Ham were playing at
Norwich. We worked together for over 10 years &
we had great banter throughout that time. Sleep well
mate.
Warren
Months Has Gone by now missing you more and more words
cant describe how i am feelin friends trying to make
me happyer i try to be but all i want is him to go down
for what he done . this is the second time i have wrote
and words are making it wrost. watching the england
game right now i rem tht day rd micheal watching them
playing and just before tht me and you was
playing table tennis tht was funny i try to remember
all the memories we all had togeter. and now kyle just
remides me of you funny and he look just like you. i
hope you got them Ballons green and yellow ya fave team.
well why i wrote this is beacuse i just want 2 write
a other one beacuse i MISS YOU SO MUCH It like someone
riped ya heart out and broken it into halfs. Christmas
well i hope you have a nice christmas up there jimmy
be thinking of you tht day.Somedays i just want to sit
there and rem all the funny stuff you did thinking of
it in my head . I wil ever rem you Jimmy cushing . sleep
tight mate wait for us
hope you are looking down .
Ever One MISSING YOU
He better be goin down or other whys
Oh yeh one more thing how you saw hit0ns firework hope
you looked out :)
Kerry xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
This is my second one i wrote
sleep tight x
lol
My friends was all gonna write one but they didnt x
god saw you looking tried
so he thought he would take you
so he put his arms arounded you
and whispered come with me
with all the broken hearts
as we all was told you slipped away
as we love you
everyone praying for you to stay
god made his chooice and made you stayed
with him
but now we all no your looking down on us
Making people laugh as you told your funny jokes
He will only take the Best just like you
Sleep Tight
now your a angel in the sky
making that one star so brighting
everynight i see that star shinning so bright
x
kerry x
Dear Jim tragically taken away from your family ,wont
forget your kind smiling face and twinkling eyes missed
by so many , how hard to imagine the pain of loosing
a son ,brother ,husband ,and daddy in such a tragic
way,
God Bless them all and ease the pain.
Jim in Gods loving care ,
Always remembered, Christine , family friend
xxx.
I knew Jim as James when he lived in Grant St I lived
a street away and there was a few of us that would hang
about together.
I can’t believe someone has taken his life, I
have my thoughts on that person which I can’t
write here but I’m sure we all feel the same way!!!
I used to say hi to him at football, bless him how
could that person do such a thing, he deserves more
than 15 years lets hope they never let him out!!!
And also my condolences to Jims family.
Sleep tight Jim
Thinking of you and your family xxx
Julie Crowley (Brown)
Although Justice has been done it will never bring
you back to the family where you belong, We still miss
you as much now as then,but the memories and the funny
times people have had will always be with us,1 of mine
is of you at Caitlins party wearing Kyles fat controller
hat with ya big round face and the rosy cheeks,perfect,lol!!!
You live on through Kyle coz he is a cracker,so funny
like you......
Loads of love to ya, keep watching that boy.
Tasha and family.xx.
I went to school with Jim, all the way from Nelson
1st through to Bowthorpe and did a lot of the same
subjects as Jim at Bowthorpe. We lived close to each
other and socialised outside of school. Even when we
left school, we worked for the same firm (Grant St
Beds). So I guess I knew Jim for virtually all of his
life, a life cruelly cut short.
I've spent a lot of time thinking about what Jim was
all about and all of the tributes paid to him are spot
on - always smiling, happy-go-lucky, kind and considerate.
In latter years, Jim and I lost touch, although every
time I saw him, he was smiling, cheery and full of
beans.
I feel proud, privileged and honoured to have known
you Jim and to have considered you as one of my very
best friends. This world is a far emptier place without
you.
Now that the trial is over, I hope that you can rest
in peace. Kyle is a tribute to you and Kim and your
spirit will live on in him. I miss you, my friend.
Dave Taylor
Heyy Jiim,,
iits RObert (Liisaas Nephew),,
YOuu Diint Reallyy See Me Much But ii Can See How Much
Kiim Miisses YOuu nd iimmaa Feel FOr Lil Kyle Because
Hiis Daddy Has GOne &+ Hes GOnnaa Be Heart BrOken
TO Fiind Thaat Out Wen Hes OLder But AslOng As He KnOws
Thaat NoBodyy Can Replace YOuuu Then Thaats Alriitee
(: YOuu Are Miissed Byy SOo Manyy PeOple nd Kiim Wiishes
Thaat She Can Briing YOuu Back. She PrObablyy Crys Herself
TOo Sleep Thiinkiing AbOut YOUu.
Miiss YOuu ):
RObert
x